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[Dec. 12th, 2003|10:39 pm]
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oh, and on another note, if you think i'm mistreating someone, or using someone, or taking advantage of someone, fucking talk to me about it. i don't like hearing that people think that, and aren't being told who. you all should know to come and talk to me to my face about it.
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[User Picture]From: quathius
2003-12-12 10:27 pm (UTC)
I am not in the best state of mind to comment on things, however it seems your passive aggressive method of telling people that you think they are treating you like a child is frankly childish. I realize that this is a good forum for ranting however, in the future could you try taking more direct routes of weeding out your friends rather than this repeated spewing of rhetoric on all those who take an interest in your life.
Sorry if that was rude.
Good luck with things.
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From: flea_ri
2003-12-12 10:53 pm (UTC)
hate to say it, but that was rude.... but accurate.
Backbone time Kris, Backbone.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2003-12-13 07:57 am (UTC)
yea. well... if i was told who those persons actually were, maybe i would have confronted them on it. but the person who informed me of such things wouldn't tell me. i was told of ONE of who those persons were, by a third source, and it was something i already knew, and had delt with, and wasn't actually what i was bitching about.

--k
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[User Picture]From: opeth
2003-12-13 01:10 am (UTC)
I beg to differ, again. The person should go to the one who they feel is being mistreated, and this post is exactly the reason why they should *not* go to you.

(This said knowing that this post is about someone who did neither, and went to a third person.)
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2003-12-13 08:00 am (UTC)
the post is NOT about someone who did neither, and went to a third person. that got brought up after the matter in this post was said. and i had KNOWN about that. i was OK with that.

and yes, if they are my friend, and think i am mistreating someone, or something, they should talk to me about it. 'cause, you know, maybe i'm being oblivious to something again. or maybe they really are wrong. but really, if they are my friends, you would think they know to talk to me about stuff i'm doing. i try and be accountable for all my actions.

--k
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[User Picture]From: rosif3r
2003-12-13 05:59 pm (UTC)
gods - ask me some time about the rant i went on a couple of years ago about this very thing (with minor modifications). about people having issues with shit i was doing, but not telling me, and about it ruining relationships, and undermining my reputation among certain people without my knowledge.

stuff like that.

*sigh* fucking New England passive-agressive shitheads.....

ro
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