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Observations for today [Sep. 28th, 2004|04:22 pm]
Nchanter
1- I really enjoy being a bitch FAR too much
2- I don't get to do it nearly enough
3- I'm a bad goth. Rain makes me sad. (though i like the night, so i'm not THAT bad of a goth)
4- I'm happier when my apartment is clean
5- My hair doesn't have enough purple in it
6- I'm poly 'cause i like falling in love. If i don't think i can fall in love with someone, i probably shouldn't get involved, 'cause that's the fun part for me. NRE, being in love, etc. Don't get me wrong, i like sex, but it's not why i do this. I do this for the emotional connections. And i can date someone even if i don't fall in love with them (sometimes chooseing not to, i can do that a little) but i can't really get involved with someone i could never fall in love with.
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[User Picture]From: darxus
2004-09-28 01:25 pm (UTC)
I don't mind you being a bitch as long as when it's directed at me I get to beat you for it.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2004-09-28 02:35 pm (UTC)
sure
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[User Picture]From: perkyfreak29
2004-09-28 01:33 pm (UTC)
One never does have enough purple in it.
Love ya hon, though I dont htink I'd ever be able to be poly, you will always have your own spot in my heart, muah
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[User Picture]From: ert
2004-09-28 01:38 pm (UTC)
I'm poly 'cause i like falling in love.

That's what originally attracted me to this racket, too.

I find that a lot easier, though, when "falling in love" = "go on a lot of dates", and dramatically harder when "falling in love" = "shack up, make babies" (or something similarly life-changing.)

I'm a bad goth. Rain makes me sad.

Doesn't being sad make you a good goth? ;-)
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2004-09-28 02:34 pm (UTC)
Doesn't being sad make you a good goth? ;-)

fuck. your right. :-P
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[User Picture]From: lucky_otter
2004-09-28 04:16 pm (UTC)
I'm a bad goth. Rain makes me sad.

Doesn't being sad make you a good goth? ;-)


That's exactly what I thought.
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[User Picture]From: cos
2004-09-28 04:58 pm (UTC)
Yes, but being bad is good when it comes to gothiness, so she's still kinda right.
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[User Picture]From: ert
2004-09-28 06:25 pm (UTC)
Yes, but...

Ow.

Too many negatives. Now I've gotta go find 'em and pick them outta my brain.
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[User Picture]From: supercheesegirl
2004-09-28 03:03 pm (UTC)
I'm a bad goth. Rain makes me sad.

You need some bright yellow purple rain boots. That would perk you right up. I've been cheerfully tromping through puddles all day. But I guess the "cheerfully" part would ruin the goth thing... You could gloomily tromp. But seriously, you gotta get some rain boots. Such fun.

I like the sound of #6.
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[User Picture]From: wench33
2004-09-28 05:34 pm (UTC)

#5.. me too

My hair doesn't have enough purple in it either.


Kate
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[User Picture]From: eldrad
2004-09-28 07:42 pm (UTC)
"""
6- I'm poly 'cause i like falling in love. If i don't think i can fall in love with someone, i probably shouldn't get involved, 'cause that's the fun part for me. NRE, being in love, etc. Don't get me wrong, i like sex, but it's not why i do this. I do this for the emotional connections. And i can date someone even if i don't fall in love with them (sometimes choosing not to, i can do that a little) but i can't really get involved with someone i could never fall in love with.
"""

You're getting all mature and good at the poly thing (by my probably relatively high standards).
And to think it wasn't that long ago when you asked someone to be your "pseudo boyfriend" or when you were considering poly just to be a phase in your life that you would eventually/inevitably settle out of.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2004-09-29 07:04 am (UTC)
yea, i'm the one that my friends come to for poly advice. it's scary. i actually credit you alot of the time for helping to make me good at this poly thing, as you were my first real poly boyfriend.

so yea, telling me that you think i'm getting all mature and good at this means alot, so thank you :-)
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[User Picture]From: eldrad
2004-09-29 02:40 pm (UTC)
Yes, this isn't the first time I've noticed you being mature around relationships and polyamory. If you credit me for some of this, I'm honored, and also very proud of how well you've done.
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[User Picture]From: justfortoday
2004-09-29 06:55 am (UTC)
this has nothing to do with anything you wrote but, i have several more than decent pictures of you from the other night- let me know if you want me to send them your way.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2004-09-29 07:05 am (UTC)
nchanter at gmail dot com

good pics of supercheesegirl would be appreciated too :P
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[User Picture]From: justfortoday
2004-09-29 07:10 am (UTC)
well. i planned on posting them all onto my photobucket account since i have pictures of you, jorn, and rox- i'll give you the link once this happens- which should be relatively soon.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2004-09-29 08:14 am (UTC)
that works too.
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[User Picture]From: justfortoday
2004-09-29 08:21 am (UTC)
i was looking at your LJ profile- you're almost as much of an an LJ snob as I am! (your friends of to friends ratio)
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