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[Jan. 13th, 2003|01:09 am]
Nchanter
[emotional state |sadsad]

been trying to figuer out how to say this, how to post this. direct method seemed to be the best way.

alan and i broke up.

it was mutual. neither one of us is in love with eachother anymore. however, we both realized this at the same time, talked about it, and made a logical and adult decision that we should probably break up. though he is still is my best friend. we're both showing up at csw for a while togeather on thursday. (and going out to lunch with ben ibbitson) we still will be cuddling, and i will still call him whenever i hit one of my minor existensial crisises. all and all, mostly what will be changing is how much time we see eachother when he's actually home, and we won't be having sex.

i cried when it happened, i'm not heartless, he was sad, but it was ok. sometimes these things just need to happen. sometimes things just need to end. just 'cause we're poly doesn't mean heartbreak doesn't exist. but honestly, it was the most logical breakup ever. and probably the least painful, esp for that of a one year relationship.

now i just wish i had gwen's dorm number so i could have called her to talk about this.. i miss her... esp now.
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[User Picture]From: knowmebymylaugh
2003-01-13 07:24 am (UTC)
I'm sorry Kris *hugs* We should get coffee and talk about our love lives sometime :)
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2003-01-13 08:27 am (UTC)

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yes, most definately.
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[User Picture]From: moxie77
2003-01-13 09:24 pm (UTC)
give me a ring sometime soon. i have found that a nice dinner out can lift even the lowest spirits. (and no, i won't make you pay for me hahaha) i love you. but then, you aleady knew that. :)
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From: emperorturill
2003-01-13 10:17 pm (UTC)
If you need to vent, you have my number and my AIM tag. Hope you feel better.

< hugs >
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[User Picture]From: dawnfeather
2003-01-14 09:47 pm (UTC)
yupyup.. hughug!! see you thursday... moo.
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