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[Aug. 2nd, 2003|12:06 pm]
Nchanter
[emotional state |hyperhyper]
[song on the wind |delerium - firefly]

my official age range has been moved from 18-25 to 19-26. 26 isn't too old for me. as long as they aren't as old as my brother, right?


wait, how old IS my brother?


yes, i DO have a brother. no, i'm not surprised you didn't know. my therapist didn't know until recently.

and yes i realize that i should keep it at 18 and just move the 25 part. but seriousely, i don't like dating younger people anyways. i can' think of anyone i've ever *whatevered* that is 18.... ok i can think of one. the 19-26 still stands. and YES if some incredibally hot incredibally STABLE 18 year old goth girl were to come along, i wouldn't turn her away. but it's good to have these rules down, or next thing you know i'll be on the rocks overlooking water with a 32 year old and in WAY over my head (and thankgodfully nothing icky happened.)

bet you didn't know about that one either. that's ok, i don't like to talk about that one. yes, i like talking about richter and the rape attempt more than i like talking about that one. LEAVE ME ALONE! let me keep with my nerosis's.


did i mention i just talked to james? hmmm... didn't mention the 26 year old. well, i don't know what's up with that, so i don't need to tell him yet... right? it might be nothing that i actually have to tell him. i don't actually have to tell him yet. hopefully though, i will


ramble ramble ramble.


wheeeeee

i SO get like this when i've just talked to him. all hyper and bouncy and shit.


siren called me a slut last night. but she didn't mean it in a bad way. she said i wouldn't be me if i weren't. she meant it as a compliment (note, siren would call a boy a slut too). but i pointed out to both her and butterfly that possibly in as soon as six months i won't beable to do this anymore. no, not by force, by CHOICE.

and it's not like i'm getting that much sex while he's gone. boy has been more compainionship than actual sex.... though there IS some of that... *sigh* but yea. i dunno.

i'm gonna stop now.


wheeeeeeeeeee............
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[User Picture]From: water_childe
2003-08-02 10:21 am (UTC)

Age.

It amused me greatly to see your rules about acceptable age ranges.
Granted I'm 9 years older then you so my perimeters for age are a little different. But, anymore, I don't have much patience for anyone much below the age of 25. I make concessions for girls because, while I hate to appear sexist, girls tend to mature sooner in most ways. But for men? Much below 25 doesn't hold much interest for me anymore and besides, they break too dam easily. And you think I'm joking don't you?

In any case while I know (rather intimatly) the 26 year old you happen to be refering too, it's honestly good to see that the two of you might have hit it off.

BTW I believe we've met. It was under rather unusual circumstances. At the Flea (roughly 2 weeks ago) you stopped by the booth I was helping out at, and got a certain part of your anatomy painted, while many looked on with rather heated interest.
I was the tall blonde, in the pink schoolgirl kilt and 'slut' bikini top.
If you happen to stop by a certain gathering (which I believe you've been extended an invite to) we shall meet again.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2003-08-02 10:59 am (UTC)

Re: Age.

nope. didn't get my body painted. i was watching though.

and i think i will attend, still working out those plans with the certain 26 year old in question.

and yea, the age range would be different for someone who is 20, and someone who is 29. it also depends on the person. i have a very close friend, who is actually an ex, who is 19 and dating a 27 year old. while i think some people could handle it (ok, he's handling it rather well) i think it's really bad for him. partially 'cause i think the age difference is a bit much, and partially the girl he's dating has rubbed me the wrong way, by showing up at my 20th birthday party (with a friend) and promptly started hitting on my primary, who wans't feeling well that night and isn't all that poly to begin with. when he turned her down (he said she was oozing "fuck me") she moved on to my than 18 year old ex, who is often quite fragile. and it's not so much that i'm jealoluse or greedy, i just get "mother lioness" about the boys i am/have been involved with, and the guys i'm jsut friends with as well.

that rant aside (sorry, i'm hyper this morning/afternoon) i do remember you, i'm just not who you think i was.

but that's ok, i'm cool. and i wouldn't have been opposed to being painted, i was just enjoying watching too damn much ;-)

--k
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[User Picture]From: water_childe
2003-08-02 11:28 am (UTC)

Re: Age.

nchanter replied:

"nope. didn't get my body painted. i was watching though."

My mistake. Honestly you must have a doppleganger wandering around. Because one of the girls we painted that day looked very much like you. Hair, glasses, and a simular cast of facial features.

"and i think i will attend, still working out those plans with the certain 26 year old in question."

Cool. I'll be there as soon as I get some more pre-Pensic stuff done. *sigh* I've been busting my hump non-stop and it just doesn't seem to every end.

"and yea, the age range would be different for someone who is 20, and someone who is 29. it also depends on the person. i have a very close friend, who is actually an ex, who is 19 and dating a 27 year old. while i think some people could handle it (ok, he's handling it rather well) i think it's really bad for him."

In my experience it's usually a matter of non-compatible life experience. Emotional maturity might gel, but this still doesn't make up for the gap in other areas. It can still work but the odds are usually against this kind of thing.

"partially 'cause i think the age difference is a bit much, and partially the girl he's dating has rubbed me the wrong way, by showing up at my 20th birthday party (with a friend) and promptly started hitting on my primary, who wans't feeling well that night and isn't all that poly to begin with."

Oooh. Bad form. Not a good way to get off on the right foot.

"when he turned her down (he said she was oozing "fuck me") she moved on to my than 18 year old ex, who is often quite fragile. and it's not so much that i'm jealoluse or greedy, i just get "mother lioness" about the boys i am/have been involved with, and the guys i'm jsut friends with as well."

I can't more then understand the whole "mother lioness" thingie.
I get the same way.

"that rant aside (sorry, i'm hyper this morning/afternoon) i do remember you, i'm just not who you think i was."

Nice that I'm remembered. Again, my bad, on mistaking you for someone else. Oh, and you need not apologies to me for ranting. I'm guilty of ranting on more then a few occations.

"but that's ok, i'm cool. and i wouldn't have been opposed to being painted, i was just enjoying watching too damn much ;-)"

This I can also relate to. As much as I enjoy attention and can often be accused of being an exhibitionist, I do like to watch as well. People both repell and fasinate me. I struggle to understand as many points of view as there are stars in the sky. I often succeed but admit that I fail more often then I like. I think I could live for a million years and still have more to learn about human nature, and what makes people tick in general.
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[User Picture]From: nchanter
2003-08-02 11:38 am (UTC)

Re: Age.

ok, your officially cool.

just added you to my friends list.

--k
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[User Picture]From: rekling
2003-08-02 12:50 pm (UTC)

Re: Age.

::rek watches the world shrink, again::

as for age, oh, age age age.

::laugh:: i could have coherent thoughts on this. maybe i'll try that in a bit.

-rek
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[User Picture]From: cos
2003-08-03 03:10 pm (UTC)

implosion

Now watch it shrink some more :)
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