Hy do me a favor. If you can't build your own life and want to borrow the peices of mine that I'm not using anymore that's fine. If you wanna retune your associations with people that are my friends that used to be your friends too... that's fine... but please be kind enough to stay out of my current affairs. I don't bother anyone about you. I'd appretiate the same.
may i enquire as to what part of your current affairs i am deliberately not staying out of?
Poor baby, friends of yours actually want to be friends with someone you don't like.
They all contacted her, not vice versa. Deal. Screw. Stop creating a big hullabaloo whenever you feel that your little world is being under attack just because you manage to piss off or alienate enough people that actually feel the lack.
Here's a news flash: plenty of people, myself, for example, don't care about your existence when you're not being a direct bother.
You seem to think your opinion has a place in this event. You're wrong. But i'll play along anyways. I don't care that people I've stopped being friends with are lumping together... just seems a lil weird. My current friends re-friending her after months of talking shit about her and how happy they are to be rid of her... that's their call and as hypocritical and weak spirited as it seems it's not really my business. What is my business is when they come and tell me that kris is still activly complaining that they still associate with me. I don't activly try to tell them not to hang out with her... All I'd like is that she didn't try to sway them against me. I see nothing absurd with this request. Do you?
[griffin - everyone likes to think their opinion counts]
::falls over laughing::
What happened to never acknowledging my existence save when I was in the same room?
I just love how easy it is to goad you, simple as that. You came over to Kris and made a nasty post, so I did my usual song and dance, and got a whole three replies!
I, personally, just came back from three months away from stupid shit like what seems to pour out of you, and within a week of being back in civilization, it's more of the same, Scribbles, having pissed off enough of his friends (who stopped "liking" Kris because you convinced them she was casting spells to give them nightmares, and other things on that high a level of sophistication) then lashing out, pointing a finger at an imagined reason for it, besides himself.
I'm very happy with my life, and I enjoy keeping you pissed off enough that you stay out of it.
Kris has nothing to do with your life, you just won't stay out of it.
1) why can't you ever stay on topic?
2) what makes you think I'm angry?
Wow, you replied to that before I even could even view my reply.
The topic is your life, and Kris'. You both happen to spend time with some of the same people. That's where the connection ends. Stop making her out to be some big evil meddler in your life.
once again, not your business.
Kris = a girlfriend to me.
Kris = nothing to you, no matter what you want to delude yourself into thinking.
For which of us is her life not his business?
Well since I wasn't talking about her life then I assume you agree this isn't your business. So why are you still yapping?
Hey don't talk to me. I delivered a simple request. He's the one going through many other topics. As long as he continues to display his lack of comprehension for what I say, I'll feel a responsibility to try to correct him in the hopes he'll advance as a person.
Kris, I love you, this one's for your info, too.
Scribbles, you periodically get it in your head that you matter enough for Kris to take time out of her life to mess with yours. For believing this, you are conceited, and I will jump on your case *EVERY* time you make the accusation, as has become a favorite occasional passtime of yours. Loudly. Annoyingly. To cause you the greatest amount of annoyance possible.
'night. Hope to not hear of you for at least another three months.
you give yourself far too much credit. and I wouldn't have it in my head if mutual friends hadn't told me. You don't pay attention well do you?
Kris, Fang doesn't have a problem with you talking to mutual friends you both share, but it's not cool that you are complaining that they still associate with him. It's making the mutual friends uncomfortable because they do have a loyalty to him and he wants to nip that in the bud because there should no longer be a question of "who's side?" The issue is in the past and has been resolved to the point of Fang no longer associates with you and vice versa. And I'm also not going to tell you that you have no right to bitch about Fang. You do. Just chose your audience a little better. The friends you do have in common with him, like Statik (i don't know what you said to who, but Statik seems a good candidate for an example): not good choices. It puts them in an uncomfortable position. People who don't like him, like James: good choices. That's all :-D
Fang, there IS nothing absurd with your request. It's just that LJ is a difficult medium to communicate through. It's easy for thing to be seen in a different light than they were supposed to be in. I think you and I have had experience with that. :-) James' experience with you tells him to treat this as an attack on Kris, who he will defend. You can't fault him for being loyal and a little overzealous in the defense of the woman he loves.
James, your intentions are noble, and I know you want to defend Kris. But there is no attack right now. Just a request. The mutual friends are still allowed to make their decisions on how they associate with Kris, and so far, they're chosing to talk to her and catch up with her, even though they know the Fang will be less than pleased. He's not actually saying "Stay away from my friends!" he's saying "Seriously, don't put them in the middle of a fight we had almost a year ago."
And I'd really like to make a nice concluding statement, but alas it is lunch time and I must eat before I pass out or something overly dramatic. :-)
2003-09-26 10:25 am (UTC)
my $.02, as this IS my journal
i wasn't complaining that anyone was still associating with him. what i have found out, since fang made his post, and didn't answer my question as to what this was about, is that he's upset or something at the fact that i asked siren if they were sleeping togeather. i don't give two shits what fang does, really, i don't. and i really don't care that she's spending time with him, but if she's in a more... involved... relatoinship with him, i want to have a heads up before i have another bubbles incident on my hands. that, and i don't think siren should be sleeping with ANYONE right now. so that was what that comment was about. yes, i'm skeptical that they are friends again, considering a month or so ago she would complain about how he wouldn't aknowledge her when they were in the same room, and then i hear, through third parties, that they are friends again, i ask her if that's true, she says yes, and i just say "be careful" that's IT. when i hear she's staying at his place, i just ask if she's sleeping with him 'cause i like to know who she's sleeping with, not vice versa. i don't care what fang is doing. i do care what siren is doing. i actually haven't been bitching about him to anyone, let alone friends of his. i mentioned to james when i got this crytpic message of his, just as a "oh hon, funny thing happened, no big deal" he asked if he could reply to it and i said "what do i care, sure if you want" i'm NOT happy about this pissing contest, and i'm not going to back either of them in this 'cause i think it's silly.
and as for the fight, i have no current grievences with fang. do i think i could ever be friends with him again, probably not, but i'm not that much a bitch, i don't care who associates with him. and contrary to popular belife, i've moved on.
oh, and as for fang's request, well, if he would clarify, as i asked, maybe i could address it. if it IS what i've been told it's about, i will still go on asking my friends about their lives, and if he happens to be in them, i'll ask about that, not 'cause i care so much what he's doing, but more that i care what THEY are doing.
Why is it, that you will sit here and call his world little and all this fun shit, yet you seem to jump at the chance to confront him whenever you can. This post wasn't for you, it was to Kris. Not for nothing, this is a very nice post. Not being insulting or anything, just asking a favor. Why is it that you always feel the need to jump into peoples shit that doesn't concern you? And for the record, cause I know your steel trap of a mind is gonna ask, yes I am butting in where it doesn't concern me. And didn't I just say you shouldn't do that? Why yes, I did. So, why and I being Hypocritical? Why not? I was staying out of it, but you had to open your doggy flap and let noise come out. And the one thing I have learned as of late, is you need to put a lock on that damned thing.
Yea, I will agree with Statik on the calling his world little, yet you will try to go toe to toe with him at every chance, which is uncool because in the end we all seem to know whos going to win.
I added you back to my list cause I wanted to see what was going on with certain people, yet I still remain good friends with Fang and Statik.
[Kaos is as Chaos does]