in addition, i might actually have someone i like as roommate potential. james's friend john showed up for katie's party last night, LOVED the apartment, and thinks other issues that he thought he might not be ok with (me being poly and james being a very good friend of his, so more, seeing me with other guys) might not be nearly so much a problem. i would TOTALY love to live with john, if he is ok with stuff. if he's not, than i just can't. i'm not going to compromise/hide who i am. lets all hope...
--k