Second, had my interview at Lesley College yesterday, went well. That's all i'm gonna say about that.
Third, It was looking like maybe just maybe Darxus and i were going to be moveing in togeather in January. Not so. It's now looking like May, which really, was the absolute latest i thought it was going to happen. but goddess, i think i might kill a lot of things between now and then.
Fourth, related to third, is Darxus's relcutance to come over here. It's assumed, unless i plead, and point out i really don't bug him to come over here all that often, that we're going to spend time over there. But i do like my apartment, and would like to spend more time here. Now, his wanting me over there makes sense sometimes, like his bed is nicer, and well, for a long time the lack of anything other than public transit to go between made some sense that i go over there WAY more than he comes over here. But, i have a more... fully furnished and functional apartment (like i have such novel items like a table and chairs, so we can sit down and have a fucking meal, or snack, like real adults do) and well, my place is much cozier, not to mention the windows that aren't draftier than the sales of the Black Pearl and a thermostat to regulate the heating. Plus things like my books and puzzle magazines my craft stuff, and other things to keep me occupied when he wants to nap and i'm all ADD related compulsive. So yea, it's been a point of continual contention. But because of the overnight winter parking bad (which is technically in effect but i'm not sure they are enforcing it yet) he really can't leave his bike on Mt.Auburn in front of my building anymore. though Cambridge, which is not 10 meters from my front door, has NO such parking ban, but he doesn't like leaving his bike, on the street, out of his sight, at night. He's comeing over tonight 'cause i pointed out that he sucks, and gave him a few parking options, but it's just frustraiting, and on-going, and gah.
Fifth, on a much happier note, i have a Date with someone that i've been looking forward to haveing a date with for a while next wednesday. this makes me realize i should probably schedule dates with the people i'm in active relationships with. and more and more i've been feeling like a home body... like Darxus and i were thinking about going out to ManRay tonight, at my urging, and then i realized i'd rather just curl up and eat take out or something and watch movies, because, well, i was running around the city with mom for the past two days. but also 'cause i'm becoming more of a home-body. that's probably just going to be more true when Darxus and i live togeather, but i also plan on haveing more parties, as the place will be bigger, once that happens. That is assumeing we don't kill eachother befoe then.
I hope that's a real-enough entry for y'all, 'cause i'm done. for now. that and i have a few posts i want to make in polyamory and i don't want to kill all my writing juice before i get to do that.