I have long felt this way.

I often use my lover's name when I say, "I love you."

I get a thrill when it happens in return.

I think it's the personalization.

And, also, there is often a loving inflection in the voice when you say the name.

ditto

If someone says, "I love you, Kris," that means that they see YOU.

yes. that it's KRIS they're talking about, and not a random "I love you too sweetie"

I am SO guilty of the "I love you too sweetie" thing. I should be better about names

I have no idea, Kris.

*duck*