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[Nov. 3rd, 2001|01:19 am]
Nchanter
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saw shallow hal tonight... one of the worst movies i've seen in a while. i *think* there was intention of a good message, but it was not a good movie.

saw this really cute girl in Denny's. second time i've seen a really cute girl in there that i've wanted to talk to. i just can't. i am so, if it had been a guy i'm sure i could have gone up to him, asked him for a butt, or a light, but a girl....


i don't understand what my fear is. i think it centers around the societal perceptions of sexuality. and virginia being so close-minded. if i were up at school would i feel the same amount of hesitation? would i be more likely to approach a girl in massachusettes than in virginia? and i am reminded of the girl in the burlington mall that i saw with galen, and my mind floats around an answer. *no*

why the fuck am i so afriad of approaching women? i am altogeather more comforatable around men, yes, i know, so that means i have to be fearful around women, approaching women? i don't like this...
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From: dogoncouch
2001-11-03 12:16 am (UTC)
difficult, isn't it?
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From: urban_cowboyz
2001-11-03 10:28 am (UTC)

I totally hear you, I'm the exact same.
Sucks doesn't it?
I don't know why I'm like that,
I just feel that men are more approachable because with girls it isn't as easy to tell if they are bi/gay.
I can usually tell with *most* (tho not ALL) guys.
*shakes head*
oh the fun of being bi.
Loves you!
Cricket
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[User Picture]From: just_cause
2001-11-05 12:57 pm (UTC)
Once, I was picked up by a woman at Ren Fest. She met me later at a bar (with other people), only to let me know that she has a boyfriend, and they are not in an open relationship, she just thought that I was hot, and bought a drink for me.

That is my one and only real encounter in the dating females scene.

I have a difficult time even pointing out good looking girls to friends, but that might be because they are still getting used to the idea of me being bi.

On a slightly different note, disapointing to hear that Shallow Hal was no good - I love Jack Black, and thought it could be amusing.
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[User Picture]From: opeth
2001-11-05 04:33 pm (UTC)
Have a friend here having a similar problem, definitely no good.
Have to get you over here when you do return, sorry for the strangeness when running into you at Brattle.
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